Fizzy Dots

Fizzy Dots

Materials

Box of Baking Soda
Vinegar
Food coloring
Pipettes or eye droppers
Small plastic bowls
Plastic shallow container or tray

Directions

Place baking soda in the shallow container or tray. Pour a small amount of vinegar in each bowl. Add a few drops of food coloring to each bowl. Using a pipette, invite your child to squeeze and release the pipette in the vinegar.  This will take some practice for your child to get the pipette to suck up the vinegar. Then ask your child to squeeze the vinegar-filled pipette over the baking soda, allowing the vinegar to drop onto the soda. Observe what happens when the vinegar reacts with the soda. Allow your child to continue exploring, though keep a watchful eye. Your child will have fun watching the vinegar and baking soda bubble.

Nurturing and Letting

By Mildred Cawlfield

“I never realized how completely caught up and absorbed I’d be by a child until after my baby came!” is a comment frequently heard from new parents.

An infant changes a couple’s focus and becomes the center of future planning. Even when expectant parents have eagerly looked forward to the new focus, they are still surprised by the depth of commitment and responsibility when the baby is theirs to care for.

Indeed, this is one of the difficulties of the many teenage pregnancies of today – the needed responsibility and commitment demand maturity.
The greatest need of an infant is a loving and dedicated care-giver. In the growing-up years, a child goes from complete dependency in infancy, to independence at maturity.The process takes both the assuming of responsibility on the part of the child, and the letting go of responsibility by the care-giver. The process is not always a smooth or obvious transition and often takes prayerful thought.
The releasing from dependence can begin right away as the parent gives up a false, fearful sense of responsibility and realizes that the infant is, in reality, God’s child. This realization can result in intuitive listening to the child’s needs.

Recently, a mother was in my office with a tiny new infant who was crying.  She had taken all the steps she could to comfort the little one, including feeding, holding, patting, etc., but the baby continued to cry. Finally, she insightfully put the baby down on the blanket, saying, “I’m going to let you work this one out by yourself.”In just a moment, the baby was quiet, happily looking around.

The right sense of letting go doesn’t mean expecting too much of a young child, or leaving him by himself for long periods, of letting him have the run of the neighborhood, or giving up the devoted attention that he needs. It means allowing him to be with a sitter or in the loving care of another for a while. It means letting him make some decisions and gradually assume responsibility for his own actions. It can mean letting a baby feed himself, even though he’s messy, or letting a toddler learn to dress himself. It can mean letting him have experiences with others away from home and allowing him to learn from his own mistakes.
 
For some parents, the process of letting go seems to be more challenging than others. Likewise, some children are eager for independence, while others are more cautious.
 
There are number of ways a parent can help a reluctant child make the transition to a new experience. The parent’s attitude is most important. There should be a conviction that the new activity is a right one for the child and that it will be harmonious.
 
Once a mother brought her preschooler to the entrance of a Sunday school class and asked him if he wanted to go to Sunday school. He had had no previous experience to be able to make that decision. The teacher invited him in and interested him in a book, telling the mother that he would be fine. Though he was happy, the mother, before leaving, again approached him and asked, “Are you sure you want to stay?” – whereupon the boy shook his head and the mother took him away.
 
It’s important, in an experience like this, to tell a child in a matter-of-fact way that you will be leaving him for a little while. Prepare him ahead of time, letting him know what the activity will be like, and that you will come back and get him at the right time. This develops trust and establishes the basis of a helpful family rule: namely, that we always tell each other where we are going to be. If we demonstrate the benefits of this rule to children when they are small, it will be easy to enforce when they get older, and we won’t ever need to wonder where they are.
 
After you’ve told your child that you will, and will back to get him, don’t linger longer than necessary before leaving him or he will sense your doubt of his ability to make the transition. It takes strength to leave a child crying, but, in most cases, as soon as the parent is out of sight the child is happy. Sometimes, a little one clings tearfully to mother, but is perfectly happy to be dropped off by daddy or an older sibling. Often, bringing along a cherished item will help with the transition.
 
A mother, seeing her child’s need for freedom from clinging to her for security, enrolled him Acorn’s weekly co-op. Instead of becoming happy after his mother’s leave-taking, the continued to sob, soaking his big handkerchief with teachers despite all our efforts to focus his thought on the interesting things we were doing. It seemed wise to help him gain a progressive sense of freedom rather than to force the break.
 
So, after consultation with the mother, we encouraged her to stay each week and help him gain his freedom in the following way: She brought two egg timers, showed her son how they worked; then, at some point during the play period, they both turned over their timers and she left, telling him that she would return when the sand was all down. At first the period was tearful, he clinging to a book of favorite hymns with pictures his mother had made, but soon his apprehension lessened.
 
Then, his mother brought two-wind up timers and each day extended the time she was away. In a few months the boy stayed happily through the session without her and had no difficulty with separation the following year when she enrolled him in Principia’s Pre-School.
 
As we continue to gain an expanded sense of our children’s individuality and capability and let go of our personal sense of responsibility accordingly, we won’t hold on and dominate, but will be ready to rejoice with them when they leave our homes and establish their own.

Dot Prints on Paper

Dot Prints on Paper

Materials

Cylinder-shaped wooden blocks or styrofoam objects – one for each color paint
Tempera paint in 3-4 different colors
2 household sponges cut in half
Paper or plastic plates – one for each color paint
9×12 construction paper

Directions

Place a sponge that has been cut in half on each plate. Pour a small amount of paint onto the sponges, each sponge having a different color of paint. Place a cylinder shaped block or piece of styrofoam on each plate.  Invite your child to dip the end of the cylinder shape into the paint on the sponge and then press it onto a piece of construction paper.  Encourage your child to try all the colors, reinforcing the names of the colors as they are used. Allow paint to dry before displaying.

Floating Dots

Floating Dots

Materials

Various colors of craft foam sheets 
Scissors
Circle template
Sharpie marker
Large plastic tub of water or bath tub
Cups, basters, water bottles, etc. for playing and exploring

Directions

Using a circle template, trace circles onto foam sheets.  Cut out.  Fill a large container with water. Place the foam circles and other ojects for water play in the container. Invite your child to explore and play. Do the foam circles sink or float? What happens when I pour or squirt water on them? Can they stick to the sides of the container?

This is an excellent activity to do in the bathtub! Children will love sticking the foam circles onto the side of the tub or on the wall. Allow dots to dry on a towel before putting them away.

Lesson Extensions:Floating Dots

After allowing your child plenty of time to explore on his own, encourage your child to sort the dots by color, count the dots, make patterns with the dots, or create pictures with the dots.  

Your child may also want to use a spay water bottle to make dry dots stick to a window, mirror, chalkboard or white board. Your child will love using these dots over and over.

True Discipline

By Dorothy Halverson, Director of Acorn Programs

Our children learn to love our values as we find and use the discipline which is firm but loving, consistent but flexible, and principled but understanding. We want our children to love doing what is right. We make requests with an attitude of expectancy, and sometimes it helps to give some acceptable choices. “Would you like to hop or tip-toe to bed?” If neither of these choices is acceptable to him, we can ask, “Would you like to walk or be carried?”, and if he doesn’t go, we can say, “Oh, I see you decided to be carried,” and then do it with a fun trot. The child understands that we are not going to waver in making a right request, but that we do love him.

When there is no choice, such as, “Do you want to come to dinner?” or “Do you want to get in your car seat?”, then it is important not to phrase the request as a question, thereby giving the child a choice. A better way to phrase the request is, “It’s time to come in for dinner.” or “We are going to the store, so you need to get in your car seat.” We all like to plan ahead and know what is coming next. Children will be more cooperative, too, if they are told what’s coming.

Though we must understand children and not be unreasonable in our expectations, we must also expect enough of them. Children should not be allowed to be disrespectful or impolite towards others. If we hold them firmly to right actions when they are young, they will gain responsibility and learn that responsibility brings freedom. If a child is expressing jealously, aggression, or willfulness, and we feel it is natural for him to be jealous of a sibling, we are giving credibility to an erroneous belief and accepting this false concept of him. It is important to deny these negative traits as erroneous suggestions that have no part in our child’s individuality and hold steadfastly to the true concept of our child as an expression of Love.

Discipline is teaching, not blaming and punishing the child. When disciplining, always separate the behavior from the child. Your approach should assure the child that you love him, but not the inappropriate behavior. “Love does not permit a child to disrespectful, disobedient, and willful. Love corrects.” (Education at The Principia, p. 26) You have the knowledge and experience to know what’s best for your children. Continue to listen for the metaphysical truths about the situation and the actions that may be taken to help your child learn the needed lesson. Parenting is a constant learning process, and as we strive to use the methods which teach the desired lessons to our children, we find ourselves enjoying them more fully.

Scrumptious Scrambled Eggs

Ingredients

4 eggs 
1/4 cup Milk
2 Tablespoons of butter
Salt and Pepper to taste
Bowl for mixing
Whisk
Skillet
Spatula

Directions

Help your child crack four eggs into a bowl. Measure 1/4 cup of milk. Invite your child to pour the milk in with the eggs. Sprinkle salt and pepper into your child’s hand and add to the mixture. BEAT eggs, milk, salt and pepper in bowl until blended. Invite your child to help with this step, too. 
HEAT butter in large nonstick skillet over medium heat until hot. POUR IN egg mixture.
As eggs begin to set, GENTLY PULL the eggs across the pan with an inverted turner, forming large soft curds. Continue pulling and turning until no visible liquid egg is seen. Remove from heat and serve.

Blocks – The Lessons They Teach

blocks

by Dorothy Halverson, Director of Acorn Programs

Have you ever wondered why blocks are such an important part of any excellent early childhood classroom? Or why your child seems to like playing with them so much? Children learn best through hands-on experiences, and block play is a valuable part of a young child’s development. Using blocks, children can piece together shapes to create a bigger picture, whether it is a representation of something they have seen or from their imagination. Exploring with blocks also nurtures an understanding for math, science, language, and dramatic play. 

Blocks are a wise investment since children continue to use them as they grow. Infants and toddlers enjoy simply touching and gripping larger, textured blocks. As toddlers, they develop more muscle control and are able to combine blocks, stack them, or line them up. Around two, children begin to figure out which shapes will fit where, and get a head start on understanding different perspectives – skills that will help them to read maps and follow directions later on. Two-year-olds may demonstrate their first attempts at building structures, and show the beginnings of imaginative play. 

Around the age of three, children learn how to balance and fit pieces together to build sturdier towers, bridges, and enclosures. Threes and fours begin to recognize designs and patterns, their towers and buildings becoming works of art. In kindergarten and early primary grades, blocks allow children to recreate structures, cities, and landscapes from everyday life. 

When your child plays with blocks, building replicas of the world around her, she is like a little scientist, experimenting with balance, structure, space, and even gravity! Have you ever watched your child attempt to build a simple tower, only to have it fall down at a particular height? Perhaps you have noticed that she tried different ways of placing the blocks until finally she created a tower that stayed up! Amazingly, what she is doing is using the scientific method of experimentation, observation, and cause-and-effect to solve the problem of the tumbling tower. 

Given the many shapes that blocks come in, they are the perfect tool for hands-on learning about basic math concepts. While playing with blocks, your child may naturally begin to sort them by a particular attribute, such as shape or size. He may notice that long rectangle blocks make much better bases than the triangular ones, or that curved blocks need to lie flat on the floor. This exploration into the nature of shapes prepares your child for later geometric understanding. You may also notice that your child enjoys making long lines of blocks. This is an important first step in grasping the concept of measurement. Children often delight when they notice that things are the same length. As an example, your child may notice that his line of blocks is the same length as the living room rug. This is an ideal time to say to your child, “I wonder if you are the same size as your line of blocks? How can we find out?” Asking questions such as these, extends the learning and encourages your child to apply what he has learned from the first measurement of the rug to a new object — himself!   

When playing with blocks, children come across new experiences with each tower, house, and railroad they build. Children are developing sophisticated uses of language, stringing sentences together using larger vocabulary and in-depth thought processes. Block play is an effortless way to get children to practice language skills simply because there is so much to talk about! Many children like to describe what they’re building, or they narrate as they go along. Show interest in your child’s construction by asking open-ended questions such as, “What might happen if . . .” and “How many ways can you . . .” Asking open-ended questions about your child’s block play may inspire her to have new ideas, as well as nurture confidence in creativity. 

Of course, the “pretend play” aspect of block-building also supports the development of social skills. In an early childhood classroom, the block area is an active social center that encourages children to share, take turns, listen, and communicate. While blocks can be a solitary activity, in most classrooms they are the place where children congregate. Even in your own home you may notice that when you bring out the blocks, everyone wants to join in the fun! Perhaps it is the open-ended nature of blocks that makes them so good for practicing a variety of social skills. There is no one “right” way to build with them, thus requiring children to work creatively together to decide how to use them. 

Block play is open-ended, and its possibilities are limitless. Whether they are wooden, colored, snap-together, or boxes, blocks will enhance your child’s learning experience. Even as children grow and develop new interests and abilities, blocks remain an active, creative learning tool.

Stripes on a Stick

Stripes on a Stick

Materials

Large stick
Acrylic paint
Painter’s tape
White spray paint
Paint brushes
Newspaper
Small bowls for paint

DirectionsStripes on a Stick

Go on a stick hunt with your child. Once the perfect stick is found, have an adult spray paint the stick white. The colors will stand out much better. Once the white paint has dried, ask your child to wrap pieces of painter’s tape around the stick to make stripes. Then invite your child to paint between the blue stripes using various colors of acrylic paint.  Once the paint is dry, peal the painter’s tape off. We discovered pealing the paint off was a bit tricky for the children since it would tear easily. Hang the colorful stick in a prominent place.